If You’re Horny Let’s Do It Ride It, My Pony My Saddle’s Waiting Come And Jump On It

Sex.

There. I’ve got your attention. Same way Z got mine when she asked how babies were made this past weekend while we where just chilling on my bed. She’s 7 so it’s not the most unreasonable time to discuss it with her. And I’ve explained it to her beforehand which she’s obviously forgotten about so I basically had to start fresh unfortunately.

Now I don’t remember exactly how our conversation went, but I do know that I tried to explain it as detailed as I thought a 7 years old needed, but also didn’t skimp out by saying it’s when two people love each other they have a baby.

I said it’s a very intimate thing that happens once a man an woman who have decided hopefully after dating for a while and talking and discussing that they would like to start a family and become parents together do for starters. Then I said you don’t have to become a parent or have sex with the first person you date. If you’re uncomfortable with them or find that maybe you don’t like them, you can tell them thanks for the opportunity but you think you should see other people and that it’s okay to move on. Then I told her other people might not want to date her to which would be fine too and doesn’t diminish her value, or mean she’s unlovable, just means there’s someone else out there for her. That’s what dating is for, finding the best person suitable for her. She may date one person and find that they are the best person and they get along great and are suitable straight of the bat, or she may find that it takes 50 different people. It’s fine.

She may go on one date and know right away she doesn’t like that person and move on. She may be in long term relationships with others before deciding it won’t work. She may kiss some or may not even hug others. She’ll know what she’s comfortable with.

But sex, hopefully comes after you’ve found someone you’ve decided you not only like, but love. Because it’s much more intimate. You share a lot more of yourself. I explained how the mans penis will go in the woman’s vagina hopefully after a lot of hugging and kissing and intimacy, but didn’t really get into the idea of foreplay. And at that point the man is able to let out his sperm which swims into the woman’s uterus and if it’s able to swim all the way up, it connects with an egg which the woman has in her vagina and if they connect they join together. That’s what grows to make a baby. That’s why only ladies can grow baby’s in their tummy’s since only we have the eggs in our uterus’s.

Then she asked me if girls have all their eggs in their uterus’s from when they are born or when do they get them? And I had to honestly admit that I couldn’t remember. I’m sure I learned it at some point but couldn’t remember if they started developing at puberty? That sounds wrong. I’m pretty sure they are there since birth. Not like a woman can develop eggs magically at puberty can she? Ugh. I’m confused. She asked me to look it up on my phone by I was just to lazy and haven’t remembered to since then. Either way, that was our conversation lol.

I’m sure we’ll revisit it many times as she gets older as I would be an awful parent if I just left it at this 😂


-Pony / Ginuwine-

2 thoughts on “If You’re Horny Let’s Do It Ride It, My Pony My Saddle’s Waiting Come And Jump On It

Keep the conversation going

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s